Growing in a relationship
Do you ever sit down and actually look at the person next to you..you know the one you say that you love more than anything?
It's amazing how this person who brings you so much happiness in the world one minute could bring you to ultimate sadness the next?
I begin to wonder is love suppose to be like this? Is love suppose to me miserable?
I myself go through things like this and ask myself am I suppose to be crying am I suppose to be this but then I read this quote...
"Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up." -James Baldwin
Growing up its hard to do..but we all have to do it..within the last year I grew up.
You ever watch a couple who were together for years since they were in the teens break up and wonder how come? they were happy they were together for long... the thing relationships are hard as it is and if you are "growing up" you have to try to grow together...
If you find yourself at odds with you partner..and your first thought is to break up..think about that..your first choice should be how to deal with the issue...and that's love.
No one is perfect and we all grow up in different ways...if you have a significant other who does anything for you within their power and loves you with all their heart don't throw it away...remember no one is perfect..not me nor you..
I guess what I'm saying if you have love hold on to it with all you mite..because you never know what could happen tomorrow.
Don't let petty things keep you apart...remember an argument is something that disrupts a good conversation.
I too am guilty of not appreciating what I have at times...think next time you want to break up with someone who loves you and especially when you love them....
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